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  • opq was here on Saturday 31 May 2008 at 2:23:00 pm


    am bored.

    so did a research on rapist.
    this is what i found.



    CHARACTERISTICS OF A RAPIST

    Rapists who assault women lead double lives. On the outside they may appear no different from other men.They are not insane nor are they "sowing some wild oats." They are men who have serious psychological or personality disorders, which they discharge through sexual violence.

    WHAT RAPIST SAY..


    A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:



    1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed . They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair . Women with short hair are not common targets.
    (SHAVE OFF ALL HAIR)



    2) The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for women who's clothing is easy to remove quickly . Many of them carry scissors around specifically to cut clothing.
    ( WEAR WINDBREAKER EVERYWHERE U GO)



    3) They also look for women on their cell phone , searching through their purse, or doing other activities while walking because they are off-guard and can be easily overpowered.
    ( CONCENTRATE WHEN WALKING. or at least pretend to)



    4) Men are most likely to attack & rape in the early morning, between 5:00a.m. and 8:30a.m.
    (GO TO SCHOOL ONLY AFTER 8.30)

    5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked is grocery store parking lots . Number two: is office parking lots/garages. Number three: is public restrooms.
    (CONTROL UR PEE TILL U REACH HOME)



    6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to another location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.
    (SCREM!)



    7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.
    (its pretty shocking that they are actually willing to sacrifices 3-5 yrs in jail just to satisfy their 'needs'.)
    i think the sentence for rape should be castration.
    (BRING A WEAPON WITH U AT ALL TIME SO THAT WHEN SOMEONE TRIES TO RAPE YOU, U CAN PUT IT IN HIS POCKET AND LET HIM GET A LONGER SENTENCE)



    8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming.
    (LEARN TAEKWONDO)



    9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas , or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.
    (BRING AN UMBRELLA EVERYWHERE YOU GO)



    10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk: 'I can't believe it is so cold out here,' 'we're in for a bad winter.' Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a line-up; you lose appeal as a target.
    (TALK TO ALL SUSPICIOUS STRANGER)



    11) If someone is coming toward you , hold out your hands in front of you and yell STOP or STAY BACK ! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back .Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
    (LEARN TO YELL LOUDER)



    12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes) , yell I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
    (note to self: buy pepper and chilli.)



    13) If someone grabs you , you can't beat them with strength but you can by outsmarting them If you are grabbed around the waist from behind, pinch the attacker either under thearm (between the elbow and armpit) OR in the upper inner thigh VERY VERY HARD. One woman in a class this guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who was trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skin and tore out muscle strands - the guy needed stitches. Try pinching yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it - it hurts.
    (OUCH!)



    14) After the initial hit, always GO for the GROIN. I know from a particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guy's parts it is extremely painful . You might think that you'll anger the guy and make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause a lot of trouble. Start causing trouble and he's out of there.
    ( DONT SLAP! IT DIRTIES YOUR HAND. KICK IT WITH YOUR MUDDY SHOES AS HARD AS YOU CAN)






    i seriously think rapist are unforgivable. they cause young girls to lose their virginity and purity by inserting their fucking goddamn penis into them. if they've gt no where to keep their penis. i think a better option is to chop them off and fried them and feed them to the cats.



    opq was here on Wednesday 28 May 2008 at 9:49:00 pm

    BRAVE!
    I AM BRAVE ALRIGHT?
    (:
    went for bloodtest with juan today!
    we r both so brave! well done juan:D
    omg.
    cant believe im done with it.
    even took this pic myself!
    look carefully and u can still see my blood in e needle.
    EWWWW.



    opq was here on Monday 26 May 2008 at 4:35:00 pm

    BYEBYE A1
    omg.
    todays paper is a goner.
    naively think that an A1 is that easy.
    CHILDISH.
    im gonna retake if i get below an A.
    I DONT CARE! (:



    opq was here on Saturday 24 May 2008 at 3:46:00 pm


    im damn hot and bothered and bored and pissed.
    i think i've reached my menopause stage.
    had been feeling this way for the whole of this week.
    thanks sherry for putting up with all my whining and snapping.

    people that i need dont have time for me.
    people that i dont need irritates me all day.
    my result suck.
    my lappy giving problems.
    i cant find my electronice dictionary.
    d/l-ed GE but cant play.
    GRRRRRR.









    where is my perfect life?



    opq was here on Thursday 22 May 2008 at 7:00:00 pm

    BACK!
    promised that i would blog ytd but did not.
    my com keep crashing like there is an earthquake luh.
    gt so f***ed up that i turn it off w/o shutting dwn :X
    sorry pple!

    its a late post.
    but i'll still blog bout shorty's bd.
    better late den nv right? :P
    we went to sentosa.

    bought her a Tom and Jerry cake.

    gave her a huge bd cardboard.



    and its US(:




    had ban mian after that.

    then its ben and jerry.


    lastly, it just me:D



    opq was here on Monday 19 May 2008 at 11:05:00 pm


    mood today: fine

    i've gt super many things to update!
































    but not today :X
























    sorry peeps.
    im real tired.
    i promise to do so by wed(:
    GOODNIGHT!



    opq was here on Wednesday 14 May 2008 at 8:50:00 pm


    mood today: FUCKING HAPPY! :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

    went for SPA tdy.
    LAST PAPER(:
    chem was fun!
    haha.
    phy.
    i gt a weird graph.
    lol.

    after SPA it was raining super heavily.
    bf came to fetch me and we went to his hse.
    didnt get to buy vitasoy :(
    we watched funny videos of a pianist and a violinist.
    haha.
    then we watch some 'magic shows'

    after that went to meet juan, sihui and kerker.
    went to queensway to COLLECT WINDBREAKER!
    yes peeps!
    windbreaker is DONE :D
    and it looks pretty(:
    LOL.
    expect me to upload pics of windbreaker right?
    im sorry to diasappoint.
    im lazy!

    this crocs must cost a bomb men.
    they put it there for a long time already.
    i think it is reserved for me.
    HAHA.


    lol.
    kay i shall end tdy's post with me and my brother! (:



    opq was here on Tuesday 13 May 2008 at 10:49:00 pm


    What Kind of Kisser Are You?

    The Pecker

    You like to keep things innocent until you know how much you like the other person. You don't let just ANYone kiss you...

    (oh yeah. i've gt character!)

    What is your ninja name?

    Cristina

    Your a freakin girl ninja! You better hope you are actually a girl! lol

    (IM A 100% PURE PRETTY GIRL :X)

    What Type Of Guy Is For You ?!

    Preppy Guy

    You will fall for a PEREP! You love the type of guys with the poped collers, hell! Who doesnt!!

    (?! no comments)

    When will you get married?

    Average 23-29 Years

    You know you love this guy/girl,and you have, but you wanted to make sure before commiting. Good choice.

    (my ideal age to get married is 24[: *hint hint*)

    What will your Daughter be named?

    Tinkerbell

    Your wife/Husband loves Paris Hiltons dog, Tinkerbell. At least your daughter will feel like a fairy.

    (omfg? i'll rather name my daughter mary)

    What type of Heart do you have?

    Careful Heart

    You take your time and do not fall in love easily.You give 50% in a relationship, and expect 50% in return.You like to handle your problems directly and immediately. You are alright with not seeing him/her so often. you expect the person to change for you.You measure your desire to whomever you love by the amount of desire he shows you.You fall out of love easily.

    (erm, what shld i say?)




    opq was here on at 8:49:00 pm


    mood today: WONDERFUL

    oh yeah!
    finally took my 2nd last paper TODAY!
    SPA tml and mid yr is officially over!
    :DDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD

    went to pk's hse to slack after phy paper tdy.
    lol. i found my childhood today!
    went to jp b4 dat and bought cup noodles.
    went to pk hse to cooked it.
    and shikin spilled e soup on e floor.
    LOL.
    so we were maria for a moment.
    THANKS shikin :P
    after dat we played monopoly.
    its a version that i had nv seen b4.
    i bet it is e same for you too.
    but we had great fun though.
    its a paper version!(:

    pk won this game.
    after that we played uno.
    another verssion that i nv seen b4 too.
    haha.

    looks normal isnt it?
    take a closer look.
    its extraordinary and adorably SMALL(:
    and...
    I WON THIS GAME! *claps*
    then we played snake and ladder.
    this time shikin won.
    haha. thats how we spent our afternoon.